If you want super soft hair…and it is going to rain then I would wash your hair and then go outside in the rain and let it get completely wet…not just a little because then it may just frizz up. Get it all wet and then dry and style it. Your hair will be just so soft. At least mine it. It is better than useing a conditioner. And it smells kinda pretty too…like the rain - if you like that sort of smell.